{"id":6450,"date":"2023-09-14T08:47:07","date_gmt":"2023-09-14T08:47:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/telefonulcopilului.md\/?p=6450"},"modified":"2023-09-14T08:54:01","modified_gmt":"2023-09-14T08:54:01","slug":"puterea-rusinii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/telefonulcopilului.md\/ru\/2023\/09\/14\/puterea-rusinii\/","title":{"rendered":"Puterea ru\u0219inii"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"6450\" class=\"elementor elementor-6450\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8d76f0e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"8d76f0e\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-c531202\" data-id=\"c531202\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-87313f9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"87313f9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Este adev\u0103rat c\u0103 nu-i nevoie s\u0103 oferim prea multe descrieri pentru a \u00een\u021belege ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 \u201eru\u0219ine\u201d? Ba mai mult, suntem sigur c\u0103 a\u021bi putea cu u\u0219urin\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 ne descrie\u021bi acea furtun\u0103 de senza\u021bii cople\u0219itoare a ceea ce denumim \u2013 ru\u0219ine. Ne-am propus s\u0103 parcurgem acest subiect reie\u0219ind din tendin\u021ba p\u0103rin\u021bilor de a folosi acest \u201einstrument\u201d drept metod\u0103 de disciplinare.<\/strong><\/p><p>V\u0103 propunem un exerci\u021biu:<\/p><p><strong>Situa\u021bia 1.<\/strong> Imagineaz\u0103-\u021bi un copil, copilul t\u0103u, pe care \u00eel iube\u0219ti mai mult dec\u00e2t via\u021ba, al\u0103turi de care nu dormi nop\u021bi atunci c\u00e2nd este bolnav sau al\u0103turi de care nu po\u021bi adormi v\u0103z\u00e2nd-l at\u00e2t de scump \u0219i dulce \u0219i parc\u0103 nu-\u021bi vine s\u0103 crezi c\u0103 este chiar al t\u0103u. \u00ce\u021bi vine s\u0103-l s\u0103ru\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103-l giugiule\u0219ti \u201ede tot\u201d, dar \u201eNu, c\u0103 doarme!\u201d. Sim\u021bi\u021bi senza\u021bia de \u00een\u0103untru? E dragoste? Dac\u0103 ai r\u0103spuns cu \u201eDa\u201d, treci mai departe.<\/p><p><strong>Situa\u021bia 2.<\/strong> Ai fost prins cu minciuna, exact \u00een cel mai nepotrivit moment c\u00e2nd sun\u0103 \u0219eful s\u0103 \u00eentrebe cum te sim\u021bi &#8211; copilul se laud\u0103 c\u0103 ieri \u00een loc s\u0103 mergi la serviciu ai fost cu el la terenul de joac\u0103 toat\u0103 ziua. Sim\u021bi? \u0218oc, emo\u021bii multe, dureroase, limbajul \u0219i g\u00e2ndirea stau pe loc, te sim\u021bi mic, ridicol, \u00eenchizi ochii \u0219i vrei s\u0103 dispari. Ce faci? Nu po\u021bi sta pe loc prea mult c\u0103 devine suspect, trebuie s\u0103 spui ceva, dar \u0219tii c\u0103 nu ai prea multe op\u021biuni c\u0103 e adev\u0103rat, ai am\u0103git. Cu siguran\u021b\u0103 o s\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219ti o solu\u021bie, \u00eens\u0103 acum nu este despre asta.<\/p><p>Imagineaz\u0103-\u021bi copilul t\u0103u tr\u0103ind aceast\u0103 ru\u0219ine \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu Universul lui \u2013 Dumneavoastr\u0103. Imagineaz\u0103-\u021bi c\u0103 el este gata s\u0103 \u00eendure neputincios aceast\u0103 ru\u0219ine de fiecare data doar pentru a v\u0103 mul\u021bumi pe Dvs., cel\/cea care sunte\u021bi lumea \u0219i via\u021ba lui. Ce \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 acest copil?<\/p><p><strong>V\u0103 a\u0219tept\u0103m \u00eentr-un apel la Telefonul Copilului 116111. A proceda gre\u0219it nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 a fi r\u0103u, las\u0103-\u021bi \u021bie \u0219i copilului t\u0103u spa\u021biu pentru alte o sut\u0103 de comportamente bune, nu perpetua ru\u0219inea.<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3176248 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3176248\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Imagineaz\u0103-\u021bi copilul t\u0103u tr\u0103ind aceast\u0103 ru\u0219ine \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu Universul lui \u2013 Dumneavoastr\u0103. Imagineaz\u0103-\u021bi c\u0103 el este gata s\u0103 \u00eendure neputincios aceast\u0103 ru\u0219ine de fiecare data doar pentru a v\u0103 mul\u021bumi pe Dvs., cel\/cea care sunte\u021bi lumea \u0219i via\u021ba lui. Ce \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 acest copil? <\/p>","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":6453,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[76],"tags":[193,121,195,261,254],"class_list":["post-6450","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-parinti","tag-comunicare-eficienta","tag-parinti-si-copii","tag-relatii-armonioase","tag-sentimentul-de-rusine","tag-suport-emotional"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v22.1 (Yoast SEO v22.4) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Puterea ru\u0219inii - Telefonul Copilului<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/telefonulcopilului.md\/ru\/2023\/09\/14\/puterea-rusinii\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"ru_RU\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Puterea ru\u0219inii\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Imagineaz\u0103-\u021bi copilul t\u0103u tr\u0103ind aceast\u0103 ru\u0219ine \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu Universul lui \u2013 Dumneavoastr\u0103. 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