{"id":5814,"date":"2023-04-04T09:10:38","date_gmt":"2023-04-04T09:10:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/telefonulcopilului.md\/?p=5814"},"modified":"2023-04-05T12:06:04","modified_gmt":"2023-04-05T12:06:04","slug":"doliu-tema-despre-care-nu-se-discuta-neplacuta-si-dureroasa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/telefonulcopilului.md\/ru\/2023\/04\/04\/doliu-tema-despre-care-nu-se-discuta-neplacuta-si-dureroasa\/","title":{"rendered":"Doliu, tem\u0103 despre care nu se discut\u0103, nepl\u0103cut\u0103 \u0219i dureroas\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"5814\" class=\"elementor elementor-5814\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8d76f0e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"8d76f0e\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-c531202\" data-id=\"c531202\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-87313f9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"87313f9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Exist\u0103 teme despre care nu se discut\u0103, sunt incomode, nepl\u0103cute, dureroase chiar. Acest fapt \u00eens\u0103 contravine necesit\u0103\u021bii de a discuta despre ele, o necesitate vindec\u0103toare. <strong>Prin acest articol v\u0103 provoc\u0103m s\u0103 analiz\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103 ce se petrece \u00een mintea noastr\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd tr\u0103im suferin\u021ba numit\u0103 \u2013 doliu.<\/strong> Doliu este despre pierderea a ceva sau cineva important, doliu este despre moartea cuiva semnificativ pentru noi, dar este \u0219i despre separarea de un prieten apropiat din via\u021ba noastr\u0103, doliu este despre divor\u021bul p\u0103rin\u021bilor, dar mai este \u0219i despre pierderea unui rol (ex: nu mai sunt elev, nu mai sunt dansator, etc).<\/p><p><strong>Tr\u0103ind doliul, trecem prin patru faze:<\/strong><\/p><ol><li><strong>Negare<\/strong> \u2013 atunci c\u00e2nd nu ne vine s\u0103 credem c\u0103 ceea ce vedem\/am aflat s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat cu adev\u0103rat. \u00cen aceast\u0103 faz\u0103 tr\u0103im \u0219oc, amor\u021bire.<\/li><li><strong>\u0417\u0430\u043f\u0443\u0442\u0430\u043d\u043d\u043e\u0441\u0442\u044c<\/strong> \u2013 c\u0103ut\u0103m s\u0103 descoperim \u201emisterul\u201d celor \u00eent\u00e2mplate, \u201eDe ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat asta?\u201d, \u201eDe ce anume mie?\u201d. Aceast\u0103 etap\u0103 este caracterizat\u0103 la nivel emo\u021bional de furie, protest, ur\u0103, blamare.<\/li><li><strong>Disperare<\/strong> \u2013 apare c\u00e2nd am epuizat puterile c\u0103ut\u00e2nd r\u0103spunsuri \u0219i \u00eencepem a \u00een\u021belege c\u0103 suntem neputincio\u0219i \u00een fa\u021ba celor \u00eent\u00e2mplate. Aici suntem cople\u0219i\u021bi de triste\u021be, vulnerabilitate , deprimare.<\/li><li><strong>Acceptarea<\/strong> este etapa \u00een care ne d\u0103m seama c\u0103 \u201evia\u021ba merge \u00eenainte\u201d \u0219i c\u0103 totul nu se mai rote\u0219te \u00een jurul pierderii suferite.<\/li><\/ol><p>Pot fi situa\u021bii c\u00e2nd, anumite faze ale doliului sunt omise, acest lucru poate fi f\u0103r\u0103 consecin\u021be dac\u0103 vorbim despre faza de negare, de exemplu, dar sunt situa\u021bii c\u00e2nd lipse\u0219te etapa accept\u0103rii,\u00a0 acesta \u00eens\u0103 poate fi un semn de alarm\u0103. <strong>Un doliu prelungit ne creeaz\u0103 dificult\u0103\u021bi \u00een toate sferele vie\u021bii.<\/strong> Despre situa\u021biile de pierdere pute\u021bi discuta cu psihologul de la Telefonul Copilului, serviciu disponibil gratuit, anonim \u0219i confiden\u021bial, 24\/24.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3176248 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3176248\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Exist\u0103 teme despre care nu se discut\u0103, sunt incomode, nepl\u0103cute, dureroase chiar. Acest fapt \u00eens\u0103 contravine necesit\u0103\u021bii de a discuta despre ele, o necesitate vindec\u0103toare. Prin acest articol v\u0103 provoc\u0103m s\u0103 analiz\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103 ce se petrece \u00een mintea noastr\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd tr\u0103im suferin\u021ba numit\u0103 \u2013 doliu. 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